Be honest: when people say “it’s fine,” it usually means
someone is swallowing their needs.
Pick the one that hits the closest — this is where the truth starts showing.
2) Which pattern feels most real right now?
Mixed signalsWarm one day, distant the next — and you’re left guessing.
AvoidanceHard talks get dodged, jokes replace honesty, and nothing changes.
Emotional coldnessYou’re there… but you don’t feel chosen, seen, or protected.
Walking on eggshellsYou filter yourself to “keep peace,” and it’s exhausting.